Referral going in!

(cycle 49, day 8)

I finished my last round of clomid last night. I'm hoping this one is our lucky one. I'm just over this whole making an effort month in and month out so it would be nice to cut this down instead of having the long wait ahead of us til we see the RE.

DH finally did his SA yesterday and didn't make a big deal about it all (outside of the whining he did about taking time off work to drive into the city), which I was a little surprised about, but I think its because he's ready for answers too. but now that that's done, I can call the clinic to get our referral going so we can actually get our appointment with the RE! finally moving forward after waiting 2 months to get all our testing done.

I'm also hoping we'll be one of those couples who get jinxed when going through testing just to end up pregnant before ever meeting an RE... it would be a welcome surprise and worth every inconvenience. a girl can dream, but I'm also realistic and fully expecting to have to keep an appointment with the RE and get to see them before this is over. even if I did get pregnant, I'd request that our appointment with the RE not be cancelled until we get past the first trimester. I don't want to cancel the appointment due to a pregnancy, just to MC once again and have to go through the waiting process again to get an appointment. I don't think we'd have to go through the year of TTC again before getting referred or have to do the testing all over again. I wish this wasn't something I had to worry about. life was so much easier thinking there weren't any issues.